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    Supporting Elderly Loved Ones during COVID-19

    As social distancing orders expand in duration for many states
    during this COVID-19 outbreak, it can prove to be challenging to support our
    older family members. Human connection is so important, but during these times
    when we must distance ourselves from older loved ones to prioritize their
    health and safety, we have to get creative. Even though you cannot physically spend
    time with them, you can still find ways to show love and support. Here are some
    great ideas to show support during these uncertain times:

    Help with Groceries and Essentials

    Even with the dedicated senior shopping times at many local
    grocery stores and other essential businesses, older adults should avoid this
    as much as possible to prevent unnecessary exposure. Family members can support
    their elderly loved ones by offering to grocery shop for them. Make a list of
    all the items they need including food, toiletries and prescriptions and as
    much as financially possible, stock their pantries and freezers with enough to
    last some time.

    If your older loved ones can unload the groceries on their own,
    leave the groceries on their doorstep and wave at them through the window. If
    you must unload the bags for them, request that they stay in another area of
    the house while you unload items in the kitchen. Be sure to sanitize the areas
    that you and the bags have touched to avoid the spread of germs.

    Video Chats

    Technology can play such a vital role in bringing us together
    during this time. FaceTime and Skype allow us to video chat with a loved one.
    You can even video chat with a group of multiple family members with Zoom or Houseparty.
    This allows family members all over the country to get together virtually.

    Consider setting up a time to video chat each day or a few times
    per week so that they have frequent interaction with loved ones. Spontaneous
    video chats are always fun too if your loved one is tech savvy enough.

    Handwritten Notes, Cards and Drawings

    Hand-written notes are often considered outdated but are such a
    thoughtful gesture to show your love. Writing your loved one a note to explain how
    much they mean to you or list all the things you are excited to do together
    once the quarantine is over is such a great gesture. Have your children draw
    something to add to the card as well and consider adding an updated photo of
    the family.

    Breaks from the News

    If your loved one lives alone and is truly socially isolated, they
    may be tempted to keep the news on the TV daily for some grasp at what is
    happening in the world. However, endless news cycles, especially of negative
    news, can lead to increased stress and anxiety levels. Remind them to take
    breaks from the news and encourage them to spend time doing other activities.

    Indoor Activities and Virtual
    Games

    Offer ideas for activities such as reading, puzzles, card games.
    Some may be surprised what activities they may find in their cupboards
    collecting dust! If they don’t have their own stock, consider dropping off some
    of your own games or extra reading material to their house for their use.

    If they’re tech savvy enough, consider introducing them to online
    games or apps that you can play together – such as Words with Friends (electronic
    scrabble) or Chess with Friends.  

    Even setting them up with a passive SnapChat account so they can
    see “in the life” videos of you and your family throughout the day.

    Encourage the Outdoors

    It is important for everyone to get
    fresh air
    when they can and however they can. As long as their backyard, front
    porch, balcony or open window can keep them safely outside 6ft from any
    passer-byer, than this should be encouraged daily at the very least. Research
    has shown a strong connection between time spent in nature and
    reduced stress, anxiety, and depression.

    While it may be difficult or a
    little uncomfortable, remember that distancing yourself from your older loved
    one during this time is an act of love. This will pass and there will be a near
    future where direct social interaction is safe again. Hang in there and be
    strong for your loved one.

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